So I'm sure we have all heard the term "Cougar". It is defined as a older woman who is on the look out for younger men. Cougars usually are 40 and up while the men they check up on are 20 years their junior.
I think I am in training.
So I am five feet tall... plus a little change here and there. I have a baby face so I am usually carded everywhere I go. Depending on the hairstyles I choose to rock, it can make it better or worse. Last year I was rocking a short, spiked hair style. Now it's in micro braids. I look young.
I get hit on by older dudes that were in the graduating class of 22' as well as younger dudes that just graduated (high school).
SOOooo.. I meet this dude and he approaches me unlike guys my age. He actually has a little suaveness. I see him about once every 3 weeks because I am usually always on the go. A few weeks ago I actually have nothing to do that day so I come home to relax a little and watch a dvd. He's coming outside as I'm going in my complex, so we stop and chat it up for a second. We exchange numbers and we laugh. Later on that day, he sends me a text letting me know that he was glad we actually got the opportunity to talk for a second and whatnot. My curiosity sets in and I shoot him a text asking how old he is. A few seconds later, he answers with.. 19.
I think I stared at the text for a couple of minutes too long because he sends another text asking if he scared me off yet.
He is 19 years old and I'm 7 years older then he is. So I started putting some things into prospective, such as. He does have his own place, his own car, a job at the hospital, in school, no kids.
He's 19 though.
My name is Isis ...
and I'm a cougar in training.